I really laugh when I read 12th night.
The homoerotic tension between Cesario/Viola and Orsino is so amazingly done and I, in general, enjoy this whole aspect of gender-switching and overall, questioning gender.
However, I'm still very convinced of the fact that Shakespeare is mocking us all with this play. Even though it's listed under love romance it really is rather a play about desire and lust and not love.